ok, my friend has a problem (it's not me i swear)

This is not me, I already got a Gf and i'm not emo.....


Anyways the problem is my friend got a crush on a girl....but he kinda pulls a dumbass mistake by staring at her and really creeped her out.

So his dumb way to fix it..... write a note saying that he thought she looked like somone else and blah blah leaving his phone number......

cause of that.... she thinks he is a stalker and a wierdo so she ignores him and so on.....

anyways after awhile i guess he finds her myspace...... so he tries to add her, and she rejects him (well G i wonder why)

so he is now emo and stuff.

I'm not asking what he should do to get the girl.

I'm asking what i could do to help his mood or somthing, should i talk to the girl (even though i have no idea who it is)

or should i try to cheer him up (I tried once..... it didn't really work out he just moped like an emo)

or should i just let him deal with it (i thought he get over it by now)

he has been like this for almost 5 monthes....its depressing, i thought it was because...... when i noticed him sad i thought it was when my friend got killed. (since they were good friends)


so any advice?


P.S I'm trying somthing with the lines so that it kinda maybe helps you not get bored with long stuff.

OK I have three idea, all of which may be successful or unsuccessful depending on the exact circumstances, and since i dont have access to them i cannot make a more detailed analysis.

First, take him out on the pull, if this is all over that one girl, then either his confidence in his ability to attract women is smashed or his hope of ever finding love is smashed. Either way introducing him to women he has no previous friendships with, and in a social setting, may help him improve both of these problems as he see's that a) theres plenty of fish in the sea and b) everyones good with women given a little nudge.

The second idea i had was that this may be the trigger that has brought an underlying problem to the surface, you say he also lost a good friend, maybe this is a way of covering up his bereavement, or maybe this just adds to the bad feelings he's harbouring, either way you may want to go to the library and check out some books on depression. Many people mock depression, or dont treat it seriously, but it is as real as it gets and it is deadly serious, and if he does have depression or bereavement problems then the sooner he recieves professional guidance the sooner his mood will improve and he can move on.

Third idea I had was that if he wants this chick so bad then the least you can do is help him fufil his wish. It sounds like an impossible feat, but bad first, second, and all impressions can be reversed. Especially if she doesnt understand the situation, maybe you should explain things to her and that he'd like to make up for creeping her out, that would at least get them together in a social and friendly environment, and that should be enough to renew his hopes, however is a friendship starts, then the further a friendship progresses the less likley a relationship becomes, to the point where you'd be putting too much on the line to enter into a relationship, especially if you have mutual friends.

Nice advice

True Lycanthrope wrote:

The second idea i had was that this may be the trigger that has brought an underlying problem to the surface, you say he also lost a good friend, maybe this is a way of covering up his bereavement, or maybe this just adds to the bad feelings he's harbouring, either way you may want to go to the library and check out some books on depression. Many people mock depression, or dont treat it seriously, but it is as real as it gets and it is deadly serious, and if he does have depression or bereavement problems then the sooner he recieves professional guidance the sooner his mood will improve and he can move on.

I'll try this idea first...

True Lycanthrope wrote:

First, take him out on the pull, if this is all over that one girl, then either his confidence in his ability to attract women is smashed or his hope of ever finding love is smashed. Either way introducing him to women he has no previous friendships with, and in a social setting, may help him improve both of these problems as he see's that a) theres plenty of fish in the sea and b) everyones good with women given a little nudge.

... if the first one fails I'll try this idea

True Lycanthrope wrote:

Third idea I had was that if he wants this chick so bad then the least you can do is help him fufil his wish. It sounds like an impossible feat, but bad first, second, and all impressions can be reversed. Especially if she doesnt understand the situation, maybe you should explain things to her and that he'd like to make up for creeping her out, that would at least get them together in a social and friendly environment, and that should be enough to renew his hopes, however is a friendship starts, then the further a friendship progresses the less likley a relationship becomes, to the point where you'd be putting too much on the line to enter into a relationship, especially if you have mutual friends.

I'll do this as a last resort if all else fails.




Nice advice i like it.

Anyone else with any?

The more the better!

umm i cant help you much at all.lycan 3rd idea could kinda help.i say you talk to this girl tell her that it is a big misunderstanding and try to make her remmet her(start over) if she does. tell your buddy to dress normally.(if you came in a suite she will really think he a stalker).also tell him to take it very slow becuase if she thinks he creepy she wont trust him that much

Hmm you could be on to somthing koro, if lycans first two ideas don't work then i might as well try talking to her and maybe fix things

If your friend really is depressed, and nothing you try to do works, make him watch porn, or take him to a strip club. It always makes people feel better after a bad relationship and things don't work. Thats the only cure for emo syndrome. And, well, try Lycans way first. It sounds a little better thought out.

Don't forget Lycan and Revan, this friend of his might be a young lad, how old is he Maruto.

The best thing about women is they are easy to charm, that's why Irish fellas find it easy to get women because we have that Irish charm. Find out what this girl likes, then get your friend to get some confidence to give her what she likes.

It's all about confidence really, your friend has to act like he's the best thing that could happen to this girl while he talks to her, but he's not going to show confidence as an Emo.

This girl might not have minded what the note said, but because he was afraid to talk to her face to face she thinks he's afraid, if she doesn't fancy him at all, she would have at least talked to him if she knew he was confident.

So try to talk to him, build him up a bit, don't be soft with him or he'll just think he should stay the way he is. Get his ego up first.

Aston_Martin_DB9 wrote:

Don't forget Lycan and Revan, this friend of his might be a young lad, how old is he Maruto.

The best thing about women is they are easy to charm, that's why Irish fellas find it easy to get women because we have that Irish charm. Find out what this girl likes, then get your friend to get some confidence to give her what she likes.

It's all about confidence really, your friend has to act like he's the best thing that could happen to this girl while he talks to her, but he's not going to show confidence as an Emo.

This girl might not have minded what the note said, but because he was afraid to talk to her face to face she thinks he's afraid, if she doesn't fancy him at all, she would have at least talked to him if she knew he was confident.

So try to talk to him, build him up a bit, don't be soft with him or he'll just think he should stay the way he is. Get his ego up first.

people watch porn when young -.-
i know a 10 y/o cousin who has a porn dvd lol
and fopr strip club
FAKE IDs

Maruto wrote:

Hmm you could be on to somthing koro, if lycans first two ideas don't work then i might as well try talking to her and maybe fix things

thats what i call do it yourself work

Aston_Martin_DB9 wrote:

Don't forget Lycan and Revan, this friend of his might be a young lad, how old is he Maruto.

The best thing about women is they are easy to charm, that's why Irish fellas find it easy to get women because we have that Irish charm. Find out what this girl likes, then get your friend to get some confidence to give her what she likes.

It's all about confidence really, your friend has to act like he's the best thing that could happen to this girl while he talks to her, but he's not going to show confidence as an Emo.


This girl might not have minded what the note said, but because he was afraid to talk to her face to face she thinks he's afraid, if she doesn't fancy him at all, she would have at least talked to him if she knew he was confident.

So try to talk to him, build him up a bit, don't be soft with him or he'll just think he should stay the way he is. Get his ego up first.

he is 15

koluigi wrote:

Maruto wrote:

Hmm you could be on to somthing koro, if lycans first two ideas don't work then i might as well try talking to her and maybe fix things

thats what i call do it yourself work

ya true lol

Tell her whats going on, and that he isnt a stalker, atleast make the whole situation better

Signal wrote:

Tell her whats going on, and that he isnt a stalker, atleast make the whole situation better

i blame signal for making your friend emo. but yea try those ideas.if not tell him to meet other women(teenage girls)

Signal wrote:

Tell her whats going on, and that he isnt a stalker, atleast make the whole situation better

I may got to do that.

I think i might as well see if she could give him a second chance and so she knows that he was not stalking her or anything like that.

Koluigi wrote:

i blame signal for making your friend emo. but yea try those ideas.if not tell him to meet other women(teenage girls)

If it all fails with this girl i'll probally try to get him to find another one.

Maruto wrote:

Signal wrote:

Tell her whats going on, and that he isnt a stalker, atleast make the whole situation better

I may got to do that.

I think i might as well see if she could give him a second chance and so she knows that he was not stalking her or anything like that.

Koluigi wrote:

i blame signal for making your friend emo. but yea try those ideas.if not tell him to meet other women(teenage girls)

If it all fails with this girl i'll probally try to get him to find another one.

if this was a funny situation i would just walk up to the girl and say you ruin my friend life now hes emo...then walk away

koluigi wrote:

Maruto wrote:

Signal wrote:

Tell her whats going on, and that he isnt a stalker, atleast make the whole situation better

I may got to do that.

I think i might as well see if she could give him a second chance and so she knows that he was not stalking her or anything like that.

Koluigi wrote:

i blame signal for making your friend emo. but yea try those ideas.if not tell him to meet other women(teenage girls)

If it all fails with this girl i'll probally try to get him to find another one.

if this was a funny situation i would just walk up to the girl and say you ruin my friend life now hes emo...then walk away

lol, i may do that (maybe) to her after this situation is resolved

Maruto wrote:

koluigi wrote:

Maruto wrote:

Signal wrote:

Tell her whats going on, and that he isnt a stalker, atleast make the whole situation better

I may got to do that.

I think i might as well see if she could give him a second chance and so she knows that he was not stalking her or anything like that.

Koluigi wrote:

i blame signal for making your friend emo. but yea try those ideas.if not tell him to meet other women(teenage girls)

If it all fails with this girl i'll probally try to get him to find another one.

if this was a funny situation i would just walk up to the girl and say you ruin my friend life now hes emo...then walk away

lol, i may do that (maybe) to her after this situation is resolved

thats what i would really do but i cant do that.....

Slayer9498 wrote:

Aston_Martin_DB9 wrote:

Don't forget Lycan and Revan, this friend of his might be a young lad, how old is he Maruto.

The best thing about women is they are easy to charm, that's why Irish fellas find it easy to get women because we have that Irish charm. Find out what this girl likes, then get your friend to get some confidence to give her what she likes.

It's all about confidence really, your friend has to act like he's the best thing that could happen to this girl while he talks to her, but he's not going to show confidence as an Emo.

This girl might not have minded what the note said, but because he was afraid to talk to her face to face she thinks he's afraid, if she doesn't fancy him at all, she would have at least talked to him if she knew he was confident.

So try to talk to him, build him up a bit, don't be soft with him or he'll just think he should stay the way he is. Get his ego up first.

people watch porn when young -.-
i know a 10 y/o cousin who has a porn dvd lol
and fopr strip club
FAKE IDs

2 things, fake ids when you look your age don't work and the main oint is, how is 15 year old going to afford a strip club ha ha