link36 i know your mad but we cant control them its the decison part of being human is making your own deciosons and theres was to leave im hurt to but im not going crazy the old me woulda but im new and im just saying if they really want to thell come back and no amount of topics u make will chang it we all have to live and let live meaning let them live there own life we cant do anything were helpless and thats from the heart